Nepenthe’s ‘All Star’ Happening: A Big Sur Love Fest

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Lolly and Bill, Nepenthe founders

What a day, what an event, what a family! Nepenthe’s all star 60th birthday was an incredible feast of riches, an elixir for the heart and soul, and so true to the meaning of its name and my grandparent’s legacy–a vanishing of all things sad. “It was what they called in the old days–A Happening,” says my aunt Holly, who was raised at the log cabin above the restaurant and is Nepenthe’s manager, along with her son Kirk.

Holly

Holly

 

And a fantastic happening it was! 

The celebration kicked off with over 40 family members (the youngest just a few months old, and including two McCallie cousins–from my grandfather’s side–all the way from Chattanooga, Tennessee) huddled on the bleachers for a photograph followed by a lunch on the terrace. My grandparents would have been smiling to see their prolific brood.

The whole day was a picture of Nepenthe perfection, with the moody, marine clouds opening to blue skies and that “40 mile view” as my grandmother used to describe the expanse, surfacing in all its glory. Tango music and dance graced the terrace at the event’s start, coinciding with a reading by me in the family log cabin, and then music by the Chicano All Stars whose delirious, festive playing resonated into the hills, pulling people from their tables and onto the dance floor, an ode to years past and Nepenthe’s party days.

 

And then there was bellydancing to live music by stunning, veteran dancers Sara Rowe (my youngest sister) and Holly Rose (my cousin), and a debut performance by my 15 year old daughter Nicoya that took my breath away–even my little niece Chama (Sara’s daughter) got in the act, twirling and flittering about like a delightful cloud, capturing the heart and attention of everyone there.

Chama

Chama and Sara

Nicoya

Nicoya

The scene as you can imagine was a bit of a mad-house, a 60s love fest of sorts, with hundreds and hundreds of people milling about all day long, old-timers and newcomers, locals, family and friends, long-ago employees, and one Big Surite that had been there on opening day (“I remember someone really famous was supposed to be there,” he said, before turning back to talk story) all gathering to share in Nepenthe’s 60 year legacy. Some found respite in a corner of the restaurant or on the back terrace, glasses of wine in hand, or at the bar downing a Moscow Mule–an old favorite of vodka and ginger beer, and of course with plenty of ambrosiaburgers and golden plumes (french fries) to go around. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Above photos by Doug McKechnie and Dee Fay.

For more images, see Nic Coury’s blog: http://photographnic.blogspot.com/


 

 

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2 Comments

  1. John Evans says:

    The celebration truly was an elixir of the heart and soul, as you write. I was lucky to hear some of the stories swapped by the long-timers that evening. What history lives at Nepenthe!

    I’m so glad it’s story is now being told.

  2. romneysteele says:

    I had my little digital recorder that day, but got overwhelmed with all that was going on to be able to tape anyone. There were some great stories for sure, and bet you have some good ones to tell.
    Thank you for sharing in the day with us–

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